Shirley Patricia Arnett

Shirley Patricia Arnett, 86, of North Chesterfield, passed away on Thursday, October 15, 2026. Born on March 1, 1940, Shirley was a beacon of love and strength to her family and community. She was preceded in death by her parents, Roy and Ara Costigan; two sons, Roderic Hollis and Randy Ray Arnett; her daughter, Venita Joyce Emory; and her siblings: Mildred Woodle, Betty Clements, Ava Normandin, and Sonny Costigan.

Shirley will be lovingly remembered as a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother and great-great-grandmother. She dedicated her life to her family, exemplifying generosity and compassion, always extending a hand to those in need. Her resilience and courage left an indelible mark on all who knew her as she faced life's challenges with unwavering strength.

Shirley is survived by her beloved husband of 58 years, Randy Arnett, and their four children, Bobby York (Jennifer), Charles York (Cynthia), Patricia Woodyard (Vance), and Jeffery Arnett (Darlene). She was a cherished grandmother to twenty-two grandchildren and embraced the role of great-grandmother to numerous great-grandchildren and great-great-grandchildren. Also mourning her loss are her sister, Peggy McPeak; her brother, Carl Costigan; and a multitude of nieces and nephews, all of whom were touched by her kindness and spirit.

A funeral service will be held at 2:00 p.m. on Tuesday, October 20, 2026, at the Chester Chapel of J.T. Morriss & Son Funeral Home. The family will receive friends one hour prior to the service at the funeral home. Interment will follow at Sunset Memorial Park, Chester, VA. Family and friends are invited to join in celebrating Shirley's life and legacy.

In this time of grief, we remember Shirley Patricia Arnett not only for her departure but for the profound impact she made in our lives. She will be dearly missed, and her spirit will forever resonate in the hearts of those who loved her. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the American Alzheimer's Assocaition in memory of Shirley Patricia Arnett.